Friendship is a special relation which is beyond all cons. A friend is someone who doesn’t judge you for what you are, doesn’t hate you for your flaws and respects you for the abilities you posses! Friendship is indeed beyond what a combination of 26 letters can ever define. Despite it being such a beautiful relation, there are times when friendships fail to survive and things fall apart. Why do friendships end? Why can’t we maintain this relation forever, especially when it’s such an amazing feeling to spend time with your friends? Well, there are reasons innumerable for friendships to break. However, we are trying to get it right for you. Read this to find out just 10 reasons why you should patch up with a friend tonight, and erase those innumerable reasons for breaking your bondage! Tag them on our post and make their hearts melt down too! 😉
1. You think they don’t care? Maybe they think the same!
There are so many instances where we feel that the long lost friend doesn’t care. But somewhere within, you know that you do care. But, why should you maintain this friendship if you feel they don’t care? Well, what if they are thinking the same? If you don’t patch up with your mate tonight, who will tell them that you still care and how will they tell you that do as well?
2. Anger doesn’t last too long.
Were you angry with your friend? Do you feel guilty for having fought that bad? I’m sure, the anger in your heart is all gone but one more thing that has walked out of your heart is a friend! So now that the anger is gone, why not leave your friend a message and get them back in? Sometimes, it is really better to put aside your ego and save relations.
3. What if it was a misunderstanding?
What if the spat that you had was a sheer misunderstanding? What if you did not understand them or you assumed things wrong? Most of the friendships ruin due to simple misunderstandings. Your friendship is special, isn’t it? So why end it in the most common fashion? I’m sure if it turns out to be a misunderstanding, you both will get over it with a smile and move on with your relation.
4. Was it worth?
Was it really worth ending the friendship? Don’t you feel that emptiness in your heart and that lump in your throat? Ask this question to your soul and if the answer is no, you know what you have to do next. In the end, your inner satisfaction and happiness is all that matters in life and you don’t feel worth losing your friend, definitely you must get things right with them.
5. What if it’s too late?
Do you really think it’s too late to get back again? Come on, the human brain doesn’t forget things so easily. Maybe they’ve been waiting all this while as well! And then there is this saying which we were taught in school: Better Late Than Never! You’ve already lost too many happy moments you could have enjoyed, so why miss out on few more now?
6. What if they don’t accept you again?
Try and try! Try hard to get them back if you really need them. And if they don’t think on the same lines, then too you will have the satisfaction that you at least tried and fulfilled your duties as a friend. If they don’t want to make it right again, they are losing on a worthy friend like you. So, whose loss is it? 😉
7. To fill the void they’ve left in your life.
Best friends always leave a void in our heart and mind when they’re not around. A fight with a close friend can give you a feeling of restlessness. If they cross your mind a 1000 times, every now and then, you definitely need to fill that void and get them back in your lives. Sometimes, friendships become stronger with distance and who knows, this distance between you two was meant to make the friendship stronger than ever!
8. 1 Bad Moment cannot erase 100s of memories!
You might have gone apart for 1 bad moment that you both would have had shared. What if they were really wrong? How does it even matter? How can you overlook the 100s of memories they gave you for one mistake of theirs? Who knows, you might make many more memories with them and all that is going to take is 1 small effort from your side! Think over it.
9. Because Patch Up is always good?
This can be one of the best decisions you could ever make, after all, Truce is always a pleasure after a war, isn’t it? And then people might look at you and say ‘And they lived happily ever after’ and that could be a fairytale ending to an ugly episode of your life! Why do you think Moms told us to stay away from fights?
10. You’re thinking of them while reading this.
You are thinking of that friend while reading this, aren’t you? This definitely means that you wish to get things right with them, right now! You miss them and you want them back, isn’t it? So what are you waiting for? Send this article to them as well and make them realize they are still important. Revive the friendship once again and feel the joy in your relation like you used to.
So what are you waiting for? Pick up your phones and text them right away. Why do you want to cry alone when you can cry together with them? Patch up with your friend right away and tell them how much you miss them!
A Chartered Accountant , Parth Parikh is a 22 year old aspiring writer and entrepreneur. He loves to express his views on every topic on earth he is aware of! Passion in his veins, love in his heart and work on his mind keep him alive. Born with love for writing in his blood and having an experience of working with multiple websites, he now wishes to start a venture of his own in the form of Just Write Things.