The term ‘girl best friends’ in itself is controversial today, given the perception of women created in one’s mind. In this world of 7.5 billion, it looks like an achievement for a girl to have a girl best friend. Girls being best friends is something which is considered very unlikely today. Girls being the bitchy ones that they have always been assumed to be, hardly one can believe that they have girl best friends and that means there won’t be any competition between them. But to be honest, girls can be pretty good friends and more to that, best friends too! They can maintain long distance friendships, and long term friendships that go on forever, that they become the aunts of their bestie’s children too! Girls need not be mean always like they are portrayed by all the stereotypes!
So to prove you wrong and to give the ‘girl best friends’ a chance to cherish their memories, we have consolidated 10 things which only the two of you can relate to!
- You are each other’s ‘wing-women’
You both understand each other’s needs for love and respecting that, are ready to be each other’s private 24×7 online wing women. You know each conversation taking place between your girl and her crush because apparently you’re the one side texting your girl by suggesting clever replies to keep the conversation going! There would even be few incidents, where she was the one who was indirectly chatting with your crush, showing as if it was you, just to set you both up, and your crush would still be under the wrong impression perhaps!
- You prefer each other’s company over group hangouts.
Sometimes, you both are just so comfy in your pj’s already, that you don’t mind ditching the group hangouts, for relaxing at one of the two’s place. You would choose to make a junk snack for yourselves and talk about your dreams and gossip till the next day, over going to a restaurant with a bunch of mutual friends, and burning a hole in your pocket. You may end up watching a movie and turn it into a sleepover and wake up the next day, only to contemplate life.
- You are each other’s inspirational voices during break downs.
If one of you goes through a tragedy and breaks down, the other starts giving inspirational speeches about self-worth and self-respect and how strong you are and how you have the potential to conquer the world and all that only till you get your mood right. And what’s next? You guys go back to square one i.e. being lethargic couch potatoes for the rest of the week (and forever) because that gives you mere happiness!
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- Level of insecurity rises when you smell a new scent in your territory.
You both are each other’s better halves, and that’s how it had been going, till you locate a new fish in your ‘bestie’ pond and you start feeling insecure. You worry if the only person, who can tolerate your madness, is going to find someone better and forget you. You obviously, don’t like her new friend and start doing what you’re already a pro at- overthinking and jumping on conclusions. That’s as good as a nightmare.
- You both act like each other’s moms at times.
By now, you guys have officially adopted each other. She gives you instructions just like your mom would, when you are about to venture out alone and takes care of you when you both are together. And so do you, behave like her mother, when she needs the parental advice. You both like being each other’s moms because at least there is one person whom you can instruct to and who would actually obey all of that. You know your girl child is immature, but a baller too and you want her to stay that way!
- Boyfriend/ Crush Swap!
You both are totally fine with imagining what it would be like if you both swapped your boyfriends /crushes. You make plans about, if their relationship works, what all trips you guys are going to go together on. You both have developed enough trust which guarantees that she won’t steal your guy and so won’t you.
- You tag her on every post you come across.
There are so many things the both of you have done together, that almost every post you see on the social media, becomes so relatable that you can’t resist tagging her. From posts about horoscopes to your period stories, from confession posts to beauty hacks. Every post you see, you go like ‘TAG!’
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- You seek permission from her parents for her and so does she .
You automatically get the vibe of responsibility when you want to help your girl get out of the house for a fun time! You assure her parents regarding your awareness about time limits and how you’re going to be safe and sound. And on some occasions your chances of getting the permission get high just for she’s going to accompany you. Because let’s get real, our parents don’t trust us enough. They trust our best friend more, as they have no clue about the complex situations you guys got into in the past, when she was the ringleader.
- Privacy? Oh, come on! You share that!
Privacy is something which is shared by you. Talking about shopping, you both don’t care about trying on clothes together, while the trial room lady has already given you plenty of warnings. You both might as well take deep interest in knowing about the grossest stuff happening to each other, be it the hair that grew on her cheek or the ugly blister on your toe that just doesn’t go away.
- You both are your squad.
You two are super comfy having only each other by your side. You both are so compatible, that there are no empty spaces in your friendship, which someone else needs to fill! You both complete each other and want to be that way forever, regardless of the dozens of fights you have every day. You don’t need anybody else in your two-bie squad!
2 Girl best Friends can do wonders for each other. Tag your soul mates here and make them feel special. Spread some smiles with Just Write Things, folks!